I’ve been getting a lot of messages asking me how I meet girls, I don’t “look very gay,” so it used to hard for me to meet girls also, but now my gaydar is like 90% correct (I’d like to think).
First off, you just have to pay attention to their gestures, body language, and eye contact. If you see/meet a cute girl and you feel some sort of connection, test her out. Be a little flirty when you talk to her (but not too much). If she seems a little more than just friendly, just play off of what she’s doing, let things flow naturally. After a short intro conversation an easy way to find out for sure is asking her if she has a boyfriend/girlfriend..
“So, are you dating anyone? Boyyyfriendddd?…… g … girlfriend……..?”
At that point she’ll most likely tell you her sexuality.
If she’s gay, congrats, you win.
If she’s straight she wont be offended, more than likely she’ll just be flattered and take it as a compliment. And who knows, you could have just made a new friend so it wasn’t a total waste of time.
With that being said, just because a girls is ‘straight,’ doesn’t mean shes STRAIGHT. If she flirted with you, maybe she’s curious, and what better person to be curious with than a lesbian :)
This is just how I do it, and its pretty successful for me.
Results may vary lol.